{"id":150,"date":"2025-10-07T11:33:56","date_gmt":"2025-10-07T11:33:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/?p=150"},"modified":"2025-10-07T11:33:58","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T11:33:58","slug":"trust-the-patterns-not-the-promises","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/?p=150","title":{"rendered":"Trust the patterns, not the promises"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Inspired by Patricia W&#8217;s post here: <a href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/@consciouslyy\/note\/c-153802460\">https:\/\/substack.com\/@consciouslyy\/note\/c-153802460<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She says, &#8220;What makes someone unsafe is their unwillingness to actually do the work to change.&#8221; I agree. That is what I have found has made me feel most unsafe in my life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Inspired by Patricia W&#8217;s post here: https:\/\/substack.com\/@consciouslyy\/note\/c-153802460 She says, &#8220;What makes someone unsafe is their unwillingness to actually do the work to change.&#8221; I agree. That is what I have found has made me feel most unsafe in my life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-150","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-emotional-survival-skills"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=150"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":151,"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150\/revisions\/151"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=150"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=150"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/engineeringharmony.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=150"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}